Dating Safety

Practical safety advice for chatting online and meeting someone in person for the first time.

Online

• Never send money. No genuine match will ask you for money, gift cards, crypto or bank details - no matter the story.
• Keep conversations on the platform until you trust the person.
• Do not share your home address, workplace, ID documents or financial information.
• Be cautious of anyone who refuses a video call, moves very fast emotionally, or has a story that keeps changing.

Meeting in person

• Meet in a public place. Arrange your own transport there and back.
• Tell a friend or family member where you are going and when you expect to be back.
• Keep your phone charged, and keep an eye on your drink.
• If anything feels wrong, leave. You do not owe anyone an explanation.

Reporting

Use the Report button on any profile, or email [email protected]. Reports are reviewed by our team and we act on scams, harassment and any content involving minors immediately.

If you are in danger

Contact your local emergency services first. Online reports are not a substitute for emergency help.